Meeting My ‘Real Parents’ For The First Time

Sometimes we see people and know what they have gone through, what made them the way they are now. You would be surprised how much a person can take, with years of life experience going through so many bad situations and today I can share this with you.

23 thoughts on “Meeting My ‘Real Parents’ For The First Time

  1. Thank you for sharing this story. Wow, I am speechless. That must have been very upsetting / confusing at such a young age & even now. I guess at one time or another both your aunt/uncle and biological parents had their reasons for doing this. although it was clearly not right. I think sometimes people don’t take into account the repercussions or how a child would feel. much love to you!

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    1. It makes me feel as if everything was just fake you know. I grew up thinking and believing everything was real. But was it? But the things is both parties NEVER really sat down as grown ups and talked about it and explained why and how. They have to though. I would do this with my kids, they should too. Thank you so much for understanding💜 we all go through things at the end we become stronger xx

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  2. Thanks so much for sharing this personal story! I think the most important thing is for parents to always be honest with their kids. Especially in situations of adoption. Otherwise if you aren’t honest, then it creates so much hate and resentment to a situation that is already hard. I admire you for going through this & having the courage to write about it. You are a much stronger person & your kids have a wonderful role model

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    1. I had to share this story.. blogging is not always about the positive and good side of all stories but I felt it was important to share. Is almost like I have to choose a side which I’m not gonna do. I learned to be honest to my kids and I shall keep doing it. They deserve to know the real world and know that not everything is fairy tales. Thank you so much for reading and sharing your thoughts.

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      1. Absolutely kids deserve to know the truth about THEIR story. Keeping it from them only harbors resentment and other negative feelings which will ultimately come out. Best to just be open about it all in the beginning to avoid any problems down the road.

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  3. I was speechless, you went through so much and became such a strong person. We don’t know each other personally but I’m very proud of you. 💛💛💛💛💛

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  4. Very moving. Thank you, for sharing your story, I know we don’t get to choose our parents. But I always say that forgiveness takes time and it starts with you. Time doesn’t heal all wounds but it does create the space you need to take care of you.

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    1. That is correctly said.. at this very moment it takes A LOT of me to even start the process of healing and forgiveness. I rather not think about it at this moment, I have to make sure my kids have me present and be there for them. When the time comes I will deal with it how I should done a long time ago. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate it!

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  5. I wasn’t expecting to hear this, what an emotional rollercoaster you have been on, and still continues. Feeling betrayed, lied to, is never easy, no matter what the excuse. I’m sorry you went through this. God bless you and the family you have made for yourself, I hope they are helping your healing.

    Thanks for sharing Catarina, it really reminds me again that your really have no idea what other people are going through. #Kindness 💛

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    1. That’s true you never know what a person goes through. And yes it’s not right but again I’m focused on my children because they need me regardless what I feel and go through. One day I will get through these emotions and be done with it. Thank you so much for commenting and sharing your thoughts🤍

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  6. Oh gosh Cata, I’m sorry you were lied to growing up and really hope you will be able to forgive both sets of parents. What’s great is that you got to get a better life even though it wasn’t necessarily your choice. I don’t know how it feels, but I’m glad you seem to be healing 💖

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    1. I’m pretty much for it just they don’t talk about it, time to time it irritates the heck out of me. When you know you did something that wasn’t necessarily okay you should talk about it and admit what you did. I mean we are all grown ups now, why not? But it’s okay I’ve learned to deal with the situation. Thank you 🙂

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